Chanuka Musings: Above Reason

One of the themes of Chanuka is transcending logic — going above and beyond what logic dictates, doing things that “don’t make sense” out of a powerful feeling of love and loyalty.

This theme is also prominent in the story of Yosef and his brothers, which we read at this time of the year. There is an inherent connection between Yosef and Chanuka, which manifests itself in many ways. For one thing, the gematria of the name “Yosef” is equivalent to the gematrias of “Antiochus” and “melech Yavan” — king of the Greeks. Yosef represents the antithesis of the Greeks. Blessed with extraordinary beauty — Yosef is the only man in the Torah who is described as beautiful — he is able to elevate his beauty, as well as all physical possessions he comes across, and use it in the service of kedusha, holiness.(1)

But I’d like to focus on another aspect of Yosef’s story. Throughout the story, we see people do things that are logical, that make sense on the surface, yet never fail to draw a negative emotional response from us. At first, Yaakov presents Yosef with a special garment. Is there anything wrong with that? Well, Yosef was a good boy who listened to his father. As can be seen from the subsequent events, there certainly were aspects of Yosef’s personality that deserved recognition and praise, and Yaakov knew that Yosef was very special. And yet… Who doesn’t feel for Yosef’s brothers, who felt less appreciated and loved than Yosef?

Another aspect of the story is that Yosef would tell his father about everything his brothers were doing wrong. Objectively speaking, he might have had the brothers’ best interests in mind. He could have sincerely believed that by bringing those things to his father’s attention he was helping them become better people. And yet, who doesn’t have an instinctive aversion to “snitching?”

When Yosef told his brothers about his dreams, technically speaking, he didn’t do anything wrong. He felt that the dreams were prophetic and that he had a responsibility to deliver the message. But again, we feel for his brothers, who must have felt hurt and threatened.

When the brothers decide to sell Yosef, their decision is logical and sound. Yosef threatens their future as Jews. It would make the most sense to get rid of him once and for all. Yet we feel a maelstorm of emotions — how can anyone possibly sell their own brother?!

The turning point of the story comes when the brothers finally throw off their logic and heed something much greater — brotherly love, that inherent connection that binds them on a level above and beyond logic. When Binyamin is accused of stealing the goblet and condemned to a life of slavery, logically there is nothing to be said. The evidence is clear. The goblet was found in Binyamin’s sack. Justice calls for a fitting punishment.

And yet, the brothers don’t concede to strict logic. They come to Yosef and ask him to set Binyamin free. On what basis? They don’t have any evidence to prove that Binyamin didn’t commit the crime. They don’t have any logical arguments in favor of mitigating the punishment. All they have is their love for their brother Binyamin, and by extention, their love for Yosef, as they acknowledge at that moment that they had been wrong in selling him — not because their logic had been faulty, but because Yosef had cried out and they did not have pity on him.

That is when, overcome by emotion, Yosef reveals himself to his brothers, and they begin to rebuild their relationship, connected not by logic, but by a much deeper sense of love and loyalty.

Let’s return to the story of Chanuka. The Greeks were the masters of logic. What they spread throughout the world and attempted to bring to the Jews made a lot of sense. And yet… The impeccable logic of the Greeks could not withstand the powerful force of love and loyalty that the Jewish people felt towards their G-d.

Resisting the Greeks made no logical sense. Objectively speaking, taking on their enormous professional army was suicidal. And yet, a small group of faithful Jews discarded logic and went to war. And miraculously, they won.

When the Jews returned to the Beis Hamikdash and couldn’t find any pure oil, logically speaking, they could have used the impure oil to light the menorah. The halacha states clearly that it is permissible under such circumstances. Yet, we instinctively cringe at such a possibility.

And Hashem responded in kind. He performed a miracle that, strictly speaking, wasn’t necessary. But Hashem’s love for the Jewish people is also above and beyond logic. No matter how far we stray, He still loves us unconditionally, and He expressed this love in the beautiful miracle of the oil, which we celebrate to this day.

As we light our Chanuka candles, perhaps we can get in touch with that powerful feeling of unconditional love — for Hashem, no matter what challenges we face in life, and for all of our brothers and sisters, whether literal or those we are related to by virtue of being part of the Jewish people.

Getting along with siblings is not always easy. Logically speaking, we might be absolutely sure that our brother or sister is very wrong — whether religiously, politically, medically, or in any other area. And yet… All of those disagreements become insignificant in the face of brotherly love.

Happy Chanuka!

P.S. Incidentally, my Chanuka trilogy was originally entitled Above Reason, as that is the overarching theme of the novels. My publisher thought that title wasn’t exciting enough, so I named the books Swords and Scrolls, Spies and Scholars, and Secret and Sacred.

(1) Rabbi Aryeh Pinchas Strickoff. Inside Chanukah. Feldheim, 2012, pages 418-420.

SimXa Shabbaton and parenting inspiration – Jewish Home articles

Two articles in Jewish Home this week:

THE 19TH ANNUAL SIMXA SHABBATON INSPIRES THE NEWCOMERS AS WELL AS OLD-TIMERS

and

EVENING OF CHIZUK INSPIRES AND EDUCATES PARENTS AND TEACHERS

And heads up: Chanuka story coming up in Inyan’s Chanuka issue, IY”H.

And a friendly reminder: please review my Chanuka books on Amazon and recommend them to family and friends :).

Have a wonderful Shabbos!

Update on my Chanuka books

Chodesh tov! As it’s now the month of Kislev, I’d like to take this opportunity to update you on my YA Chanuka trilogy. The first two books, Swords and Scrolls and Spies and Scholars, are currently available at your local book stores and from Feldheim and are on the Black Friday sale today.

The third book, Secret and Sacred, with a newly updated cover, will soon be available in stores and from Feldheim also, IY”H.

Hope these books will help you and your children prepare for Chanuka and experience this beautiful holiday in a more meaningful way! Have a wonderful Shabbos!

E-book of my Tanach stories

Exciting news: six of my stories set in the times of the Tanach are now available as an e-book! All the stories were originally published in Hamodia’s Inyan Magazine, and with their permission, I’ve used their original illustrations and typesetting in the e-boook, The Return and Other Stories.

The e-book is available in two formats: PDF and Amazon kindle. It is meant to be used as part of the Ani VeAmi curriculum, but the stories will appeal to anyone who has studied Tanach, whether young or old, homeschooling or not.

Also, my article on the upcoming Israel Gap Year Fair was in last week’s Jewish Home, on page 5. If you know anyone thinking of spending a year in Israel, the fair offers a wealth of information.

Have a wonderful Shabbos!

Story in Hamodia’s Sukkos supplement

My story, For the Informers, is in Hamodia’s Sukkos Story Supplement. Hope you enjoy it!

Have a wonderful Shabbos and an amazing Yom Tov!

Story in Inyan, article in Jewish Home, and shana tova!

My story, Foreign Soil, is in next week’s Hamodia’s Inyan Magazine, right after Rosh Hashana.

Here is my article on the local Project Focus event.

Last, but not least, I’d like to wish each and every one of my readers kesiva vechasima tova and a happy, healthy year!

Good Shabbos!

Elul musings and latest articles

They say that Reb Simcha Bunim of Peschischa used to say that one should have two pockets. On one pocket, it should say, “The world was created for me.” On the other, it should say, “I am but dust and ashes.”

As we approach Rosh Hashana and reflect on the past year, it helps to keep both perspectives in mind. On the one hand, each of us was created with tremendous potential to change the world. On the other hand, there are things in this world that are outside of our control and are not up to us to change.

While it’s important to set goals for ourselves for the upcoming year, it is also important not to blame ourselves for those aspects of last year’s goals that did not materialize. We can try, but we have no control over the outcome. And the best we can do this Elul is to commit to try again. “It is not up to us to finish the work, yet we are not free to refrain from it” (Pirkei Avos 2:21).

For those who have room in their hearts and their homes for a tremendous chessed, here’s my article on the need for Jewish foster parents in Los Angeles.

Another inspiring project is Beit Nesicha — a residental treatment program for Jewish women.

And Sharsheret’s Pink Challah Bake was also inspiring.

Story in Inyan this week

My story, Reviving Hope, is in Hamodia’s Inyan Magazine this week. It’s about rebuilding the Beis Hamikdash after galus Bavel. Hope you enjoy it.

Have a wonderful Shabbos!

Article in Kesher Magazine

My article, On the Front Lines: Life of a Hospital Chaplain is in the latest issue of Kesher Magazine. Rabbi Weiner is very inspiring!

Have a wonderful Shabbos, and an easy and meaningful fast!

Story for the Three Weeks, Jewish homeschool curriculum giveaway, and other updates

My two-part story, Friends and Foes, will be in this and next week’s issues of Hamodia’s Inyan Magazine, IY”H. The story is set in besieged Yerushalayim and is based on the midrashim about Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai. Hope you find it enjoyable and inspiring.

My Jewish homeschool curriculum guides are on a giveaway this week at Ani VeAmi. Here is a video review of the guides by Chana Voola of Cheder at Home. This is your chance to win one of them for free, including the upcoming Talmud Guide that I’m currently working on.

And here are my Jewish Home articles from the past few weeks:

OU West Coast Gala Banquet Recognizes Rabbi and Mrs. Kalinsky and Pat’s Restaurant and Catering

New Sefer Torah for Children is Dedicated at Kol Avrohom

The Los Angeles Premier of Soon By You at The Community Shul